s you might know the Bible has a lot to say about forgiveness, but none as profound as the this one : ...and Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do." _{Luk_23:34} Hopefully these previous steps has created in you the capacity to forgive. Now you need to say "I forgive ..." by name. I think is important to speak the words. First only where you and God can hear, and later where everyone can.